WUGO | Greg Macek

life

  • To Those Who Go Before Us

    To Those Who Go Before Us

    To the people whose lives were examples for us
    Who showed us the way without trying;

    To those who cared more deeply than was expected of them;

    To those who quietly prepared routes for us
    Not knowing where those paths would take us;

    To those whose offhanded comments steered us
    Towards the places we’d find and make lifelong friends;

    To those who lovingly looked out for us as one of their own children
    From near or far;

    To those who taught us what we needed to know
    To be prepared for what lay ahead;

    To those who go before us and will never know
    The fullness of our love and gratitude;

    Thank you for everything you did, for who you were,
    For who you continue to be in our hearts and memories.

    We love you.

  • The Performative Nature of America

    The Performative Nature of America

    Always Camera Ready

    It’s quite incredible how much society has shaped us into thinking we need to be “on” all the time. We have to be ready with the right inspirational quote, or drop a spicy take on some topic, to have a well-told story, to have the perfect Instagram-ready vacation photo no matter how you felt in the moment, or if you’re the more nuanced type, to also be mindful to not “say the wrong thing” to spark outrage online for simply sharing a thought about … anything. 

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  • Noticing

    Noticing

    Every once in a while, I am reminded that we need to remind others that we exist and of what we “bring to the table.” It is not the natural state for many of us to notice others. It is not my natural state to do things intentionally to be noticed.

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  • Nobody is a Stranger in Scotland

    Nobody is a Stranger in Scotland

    Once in a while you meet someone you didn’t quite expect and that person ends up imprinting a part of themselves onto you, whether they were intending to or not. And yet, you walk away from that experience being extremely grateful.

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  • In Your Own Words

    In Your Own Words

    In the last few years, I’ve watched people I know take on new personas online and spout off with positions on topics on social media and speak in tones and absolutes that would trouble me if I heard them talk that same way in person. I’ve seen how calloused and stubborn we have become in positions on everything from politics to medicine to foreign policy to religion and everything else in between. And in most of these areas, the people I’m referring to are not professionals in those spaces but speak with the authority and audacity (pride?) of someone who is. It is baffling. Why do we feel so compelled to sound right all of the time (and everyone else wrong)? 

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  • 2020, The Loss Of Nuance, and The Callousness of Selfish Gain

    2020, The Loss Of Nuance, and The Callousness of Selfish Gain

    I was not ready for what this year became. I suspect you, reader, were not either. 

    This year was hard. Though like many others I tried to make do with what was dealt. I spent more time alone than usual and wrote about feeling the need to be cared for as a single person. Travel was mostly nonexistent, save for one coordinated trip to the South for a week in June to see & quarantine with close friends. The April marathon I trained for was canceled. Yet I continued running throughout the year and almost logged 700 miles. Neighbor Bob and I masked up and replaced the basement and stair tile. I completed a year at my not-so-new job. I also made some new friends while nerding out over stationary. So not all was lost.

    However,  I also found 4 gray hairs. That is not acceptable. Thanks a lot, 2020!  

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  • Truthful Words (Should) Matter

    How much does truth matter to you? 

    Mm, what’d you say?
    Mm, that you only meant well
    Well of course you did
    Mm, what’d you say?
    Mm, that it’s all for the best
    Of course it is
    Mm, what’d you say?
    Mm, that it’s just what we need
    You decided this
    – “Hide and Seek”, Imogen Heap

    It’s a cliche at this point to say American culture is at a crossroads. Each generation says and feels that “it’s never been like this before.” And they would be correct. Our moment is no different; how we talk and write about it is, however.

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  • Best Supporting Actor

    Be the best supporting actor role in everyone else’s story

    Me, Me, Me

    American culture has an odd obsession with celebrity and being a star and unique. We are taught to see ourselves as important and as the center of our universe. Individually we are each the point from which all things revolve and rotate around. We each matter, probably more than the next person! It’s ok for goals, personal freedoms, and desires to take precedence over any unexpected repercussions in our ongoing quest for self-gratification. It’s self above all else. 

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